Violet: Secret Flower Like Sex Doll — Not What I Expected (But Maybe Better?)

There’s this thing that happens when you first hear about a product like the Violet “Secret Flower Like” sex doll.

You roll your eyes, right? Or maybe you don’t, but I did. I mean, come on—5 feet 5 inches tall, F cup, athletic and curvy all at once? The marketing almost tries too hard. And yet, here we are.

I’ll admit it: curiosity got me. Quietly impressed is not really my style but… well, let’s just say there are details about this silicone sex doll that stuck with me longer than expected.

The Details They Don’t Put in Bold

You see the specs everywhere—height (165 cm), weight (80 lbs), hips all measured out to decimal points. But numbers miss something weirdly important: how she actually feels in a room. There’s a difference between reading “steel skeleton with movable joints” and actually bending those joints yourself. It’s not quite human, sure—but it’s also not clunky or stiff like some of the older love dolls I've seen online.

Her skin (silicone) feels… hmm, not exactly real but definitely not plastic either. TPE sometimes gets sticky or too soft; this one lands somewhere in between. If you care about proportions: Bust 33", Under Bust 24.5", Waist 21.3", Hips 36.8". Cup size F—yeah, they’re big breasts for sure but somehow don’t look cartoonish in person? That surprised me.

Movable Joints & Unexpected Realism

Alright—one thing that caught me off guard was how much posing you can do with her steel skeleton setup. Sitting positions work fine; standing is a bit trickier unless you get creative with supports (not gonna lie). Movable joints mean more realistic play—or just less awkward storage if you’re into subtlety.

A friend once told me these things always feel lifeless no matter what, but honestly there was something oddly present about Violet sitting quietly by the window while I cleaned up after unboxing her (discreet packaging is legit by the way). Weird moment.

Shipping Is Slow—But Discreet

Here’s where skepticism comes back: shipping times aren’t short. Two to three weeks processing plus another week for delivery means basically a month of waiting around for your absolute sex doll order to show up at your door. The box itself? Totally plain—no branding or awkward labels screaming “giant sex doll inside!” which is… relieving.

The wait kind of builds anticipation whether you want it to or not.

About Those Measurements…

Let’s talk specifics because people ask: Vagina depth is 6.7 inches; anal goes slightly shorter at 6.3 inches deep—not bad compared to others I’ve read about online forums (don’t judge). Shoe size falls around women’s US 4.5-5 if for some reason dressing her up matters to you (it might).

She weighs in at 80 lbs which isn’t feather-light but manageable enough for one person if you move slow and plan ahead—a little awkward through doorways though.

Odd Little Realization

One night while adjusting her legs—which are long by the way—I realized she looks different depending on the lighting and clothes she wears (or doesn’t wear). Sometimes athletic and tall; sometimes skinny and young-ish; sometimes thick and curvy depending on angle or mood lighting or maybe just my own tired brain projecting things onto silicone curves.

It hit me that these dolls aren’t really about replacing anything—they’re sort of blank slates for whatever story plays out in your head that day.

Not Everything Is Perfect

Downsides? Sure—she doesn’t warm up unless you buy add-ons or improvise with blankets water bottles which feels silly at first but works okay-ish in winter months anyway.

Storage isn’t simple either unless you have space set aside—it’s not like tucking away a book under your bed when guests visit unexpectedly.

And yes—the price tag stings if you're used to cheap stuff from dodgy sites promising "realistic" love dolls that show up looking nothing like their photos (been there…). With Violet though, what shows up matches what was promised on Absolute Sex Dolls’ site—at least from my experience anyway.

Random Tangent About Expectations

I remember thinking these things were only for lonely guys living in basements—and maybe some are—but after spending time with Violet I started seeing posts from couples using similar dolls to spice things up together? Never would’ve guessed before trying it myself but now… ehh, makes sense somehow?

Guess expectations change once reality kicks down the door wearing discreet packaging tape.

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If someone had told me last year I'd end up explaining all this to a friend over coffee—well... probably would've laughed it off as nonsense then too.