Abena: Afro-Latina Baddie Sex Doll – Some Honest Thoughts

That First Moment of Unboxing (And Yes, I Was Skeptical)

I’ll admit it flat-out—I never really bought into the hype around these ultra realistic silicone sex dolls. The ads always look a bit too airbrushed, you know? But curiosity got the better of me with Abena, the Afro-Latina baddie from Absolute Sex Dolls. Maybe it was her athletic vibe or that 5 feet 3 inches height (159 cm, which is… pretty much perfect if you ask me). Or maybe I just wanted to see if any doll could actually feel like more than a weird mannequin. Anyway, after waiting through what felt like forever—three weeks plus some change—the box finally showed up.

Discreet packaging isn’t a lie. You’d never guess what’s in there unless you’re psychic or something. No logos, nothing suggestive. Just a plain box that looked almost boring on my doorstep.

The Details They Don’t Really Talk About

Once I got past the initial weirdness of unwrapping an actual human-sized doll (it’s heavy—73.8 lbs is no joke), I started noticing little things nobody mentions online. For one: the skin texture is wild. Silicone is supposed to be “realistic,” but this felt almost cool at first touch and then slowly warmed under my hand—like actual skin does sometimes.

The steel skeleton was another surprise; she holds poses better than expected. Movable joints mean you’re not stuck with awkward positions or stiff limbs pointing in random directions. There’s something quietly impressive about how adjustable she is without feeling fragile.

Her proportions are… well, let’s just say H-cup isn’t an exaggeration. Bust comes in at 34.9 inches, waist at 22 inches, and hips at 37.4 inches—a shape that looks athletic but still curvy enough for anyone who likes a fit look without losing softness.

Weirdly Specific Measurements (But People Care)

This part always made me laugh when reading specs online: hole depth measurements? But after trying out vaginal (7 inches), anal (5 inches), and oral (5 inches) options—it actually matters more than you’d think if you want things to feel natural instead of awkwardly short or too shallow.

Shoe size? Women’s 6-6.5 apparently fits perfectly if dressing her up is your thing—which honestly I didn’t expect to enjoy as much as I did until I tried it once out of boredom and now… yeah, it became part of the routine sometimes.

A Quick Tangent About Waiting

Waiting three to four weeks for delivery nearly killed my excitement halfway through—I even forgot about her for days at a time until tracking emails popped up again—but when she arrived, all that patience kind of paid off? Free international shipping helped soften the blow too; no hidden fees lurking anywhere.

That said, absolute sex dolls aren’t exactly impulse buys unless you have superhuman patience or don’t mind delayed gratification.

Using Her—Not What I Expected

Sex dolls always seemed like they’d be cold both literally and emotionally—but Abena surprised me there too (not going to get graphic here). Vaginal, anal, oral possibilities are all accessible thanks to those deep channels and flexible joints; everything stays where it should during use instead of shifting around uncomfortably.

Still—not quite like being with someone real obviously—but way less uncanny valley than expected from an “ultra realistic” silicone sex doll.

One Odd Realization

There was this one moment where I caught myself talking to her while moving her arm for cleaning—and it hit me how easily these dolls can blur lines between toy and companion if you’re not careful or maybe just lonely that day. Not sure how I feel about that yet.

Also: cleaning takes longer than anyone admits online; don’t skip that step unless you want regrets later on.

Would I Recommend Her?

Depends who’s asking honestly—if someone wants an athletic-looking Afro-Latina baddie with real presence (fit build, H-cup curves), Abena delivers what she promises on paper and then some in person. Not cheap by any means but feels less gimmicky than most absolute sex dolls on the market right now.

Still wish processing times were faster though—or maybe patience is just not my strong suit anymore?

Anyway… there are parts of this experience that surprised me—in ways good and strange—and now she’s standing in my closet looking oddly lifelike whenever I walk by late at night.